No, I broke up with her myself as I felt I was hurting her. She did nothing wrong to me.
So you’re married and this ex is a side chick?
I didn't wish to keep her as a side chick. She was sincerely in love with me. And I couldn't do anything for her. I felt I was hurting her by expressing my love towards her. So I decided to break up with her. It was not difficult to read a lady's hurt. Many times she cried in front of me if she got hurt.
I just told her that I cannot give her love and whatever happened between us shall be forgotten. But I felt I was the most selfish person on this planet to say this to someone who had loved me too much. And obviously it did hurt her and she went away for 6 months. But one day she called me back and then came to me and apologised for things on which she hurt me. She said she was too unwell and couldn't do anything but to express her love towards me. She just had me. Her father had left their family long ago. She was alone. She was into so many troubles.
No, I broke up with her myself as I felt I was hurting her. She did nothing wrong to me. She never deserved to be abandoned either. We kept a relationship for 2 months and I felt she was getting too much attached with me. I felt it was not good for her since I am already married.
Definitely would have been good to know that information before hand. To be honest she started to get way too attached after two months that's a big red flag. She probably does miss you at this point and she could still be going through the healing phase. I don't really know her side only yours from what you told me. The main thing is you are already married bro. It's hard to juggle one as is now a days. Plus if you get caught dude you are paying up the ass for the divorce and child support. That's a lot of money big guy.
But still it wasn't her fault. She is from a broken family. She never received love from anybody. Her psychiatrist said she needed affection. She was on antidepressants. I had felt bad for her and was sympathetic. She developed a very strong attachment with me. She says she cannot love anyone now. She can't see anyone like me. That's why I feel guilty sometimes. I was the one who abandoned her. She never wanted to break up with me. It's obvious.
I understand you worry about this chick I get it, but dude you have a family and now this chick that you tried to help fix. You can see it wasn't something you wanted so instead of pro longing the relationship you decided to break it off. Look at it this way things would have been worse if the relationship was longer. It's not your fault bud you saw something that pushed you away. She is an ex for a reason big guy. I'm not trying to be a dick just trying to tell you what I am seeing I have had the blinders on myself. This is my opinion/advice I see nothing good if you end up getting back with her.
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