Why do my exes change so much once they dump me?

Anonymous
My first boyfriend was straight edge (anti drugs, alcohol) so I wasn't allowed to drink because it'd upset him. The second he dumped me, he became massively into drugs and alcohol.

My recent break up was similar. I'm very environmentally proactive and i'm vegan. He couldn't cope with my views and passion, so he dumped me. Now? He's vegan.

Why not be flexible while with me? Why change once we are over?
Why do my exes change so much once they dump me?
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