What are the causes of break up and why you break up with your ex?

[AzureGirl]

First ex: he broke up with me because “we rushed.” In reality he just wanted to chase a girl he met while playing xbox.

Second ex: it was a mutual decision. We got together within 24 hours of meeting and decided that wasn’t the best of ideas. He strung me along for a few months after until he realized I wasn’t going to just sleep with him like he wanted. He basically created nonexistent drama and ghosted me after.

And finally, my current partner and I had a two month break in our relationship. He brought it on because college and family pressures were stressing him out to the point he felt bad because he didn’t have any time to devote to me. I gave him space, only texting him once the morning and once at night unless he initiated otherwise. We resumed our relationship when he was in a better place mentally.

[bubbles328]

Which one?

first one we were young and drifted apart and went our separate ways.

Second, we married had 2 kids he couldn't keep it in his pants and was never home even missing the birth of our second child to get his end away. I got on with it because I had 2 young kids and couldn't be bothered finding the truth out until one day I just got sick of being alone so I got up, got my kids and left.

The third was severely abusive and I left a million times but eventually, I left for good!

Final one was so jealous he thought I cheated to cheated in front of me to get me back.

My only bit of advice is you will love again and or be happy just keep going.

[vxlsir]

Catching them cheating x3

She moved out of country

She was always mad looking to start fights about anything

She was poking hole in condoms trying to get pregnant without even having a conversation about kids

All the other playing mind games

Was broken up with once because she was cheating and didn't want me to find out

[RHK36]

Was married for about a decade and started to try for a kid. I guess she thought then it was the perfect time to sleep with a guy friend that had kids and was married. So, naturally one tends to break up from that situation lol.

[Love117]

1st boyfriend: cheated, then blame me for not trusting him anymore.

2nd boyfriend: cheated, but only because his friend told him that I did. He found out that his friend was lying. We tried again but a month later, his family moved.

3rd boyfriend: cheated.

4th boyfriend: Realize he was immature.

5th boyfriend: Couldn't text me or call me. Only talked to me on Twitter posts. Moving to fast. He couldn't prove that he actually loved me like he claimed. He found someone else.

[Agape93]

Of my 4, in order.
1. He was moving
2. He wanted what I couldn’t offer, and was getting sweet on another girl. Let him be happy :)
3. She wasn’t interested after a while
4. God too many reasons. Suffice to say he was a monster.

[Anonymous]

I fell out of love. And on top of that it was a difficult relationship often due to his mental health issues and putting a lot of responsibility for his health on my shoulders. We got back together though, then he broke up... Then 3 weeks later he texted me again wanting to hang out so we became friends instead. That didn't work either in the end though because we care about each other but we're very different and don't agree on much. No hard feelings.

[Angel_33]

Frist woman changed me, in this time be very emotion and make deal never let some so me try deprimed. And later meet some women so im know some extraordinary woman. So relionship are simple choice want stay with him choice two not be with him. And then have more choices in lofe. So mine advice is never not be sad from any relionship and smile at time so come to you. Im think bond you create nothing can break and when become inner strenght and make yours soul let inside with empathy. Is better.

[Anonymous]

My feelings weren't there or fell out of love.

My most recent break-up was basically because he wanted an open relationship and I certainly didn't It's a rough one, still trying to get over him.

[taleets]

He flies girls out to see him whenever he isn’t with me

[Thieuphunglam]

When people get comfortable in the relationship and don’t try anymore.

[little_bird1]

In my case, all of my breakups ended because they didn't truly loved me.

[Anonymous]

Too much of an age difference, I was 16 years older and me loosing most of my assets in the 2008-2009 economic down turn. Then not being able to find a good job. My fucking Colombian bitch ex-wife relized she was married to an old broke gringo bastard. Now she lives in a trailer park in Texas with a fat ass Mexican truck driver.

[Anonymous]

She wanted me to care and listen to every single thing she could complain about, but if I was having a rough day I was lucky to get a whole 3 minutes of her attention before she redirected back to her issues.

[ivbnlknfru]

There are numerous reasons for a breakup, I feel the 3 major root causes are
1. Financial difficulties
2. Lack of communication
3. Infidelity (usually caused by 1 & 2)...

[jamesgoldman]

One moved for university and the other moved to Poland

[eyesopenwide]

Some there's no explaition that the person can explain. They hurt in ways that make them lash out in ways that are unrepairable

[masseylacey906]

Deceat in every way is a deal breaker. I divorced my ex due to him not keeping his hands off me the numerous times of cheating. And him sleeping with my mom.

[Silverio_Stieger]

All my break ups were for the same reason: they want to marry, I'm not

[Rohailhyt]

Useless arguments, intolerance, lots of expectations.

[ShimmerStar]

LDR. Before our LDR began we broke it off because one of us cannot handle ldr and the relationship isn't happy anymore.

[MannMitAntworten]

Their cheating or realizing their incompatibility.

[TheAceholeSupreme666]

In short, she cheated.

[Forte89]

Lack of mutual respect.