Why cut off a good friend /ex girlfriend when there's been no harassment /bad break up?

ladylolli
ill be as brief as possible. Best mates with a guy for 2 years, knew each other pretty well, both knew things no one else did and trusted each other. Then dated for another year. He started and then ended it stating there was no connection. Which is bull, you would know if there was connection after such a close friendship. I left him to it as was heartbroken (still am) and have been trying to move on / focus on myself.
After like 6 months he randomly blocked me on fb. I hadn't been harassing him. We had maybe 3 very civil text convas where we still got on but I pretty much left him to it. Hoped he'd get in touch. A month after he blocked me on fb, he deleted my number ( no watsapp picture anymore.)
My friend ( mutual) has told me it looks like he's dating another girl. Obv not what I wanted but its his life. I still don't get why he would block me. If he wanted to move on, I wouldn't of stopped him. I certainly wouldn't of contacted her and I was bound to find out as we have lots of mutual friends. He knows despite me wanting him back, if he were happy id leave him to it. We are both still fb friends with previous ex's, so it doesn't make sense. Just seems like he is either ' Trying to move on ' rather then just moving on or just been nasty.
Before anyone says it, have been trying to move on. Been on dates, Been focusing on other things so please don't just say that.
I'd understand if I had harassed him. I'd understand if I had done something hurtful or if it was a bad break up. I would understand if he thought I'd never find out (protecting my feelings) but when he knows I'd find out for sure - it just seems pointless. Any ideas? Just seems a little spiteful or he feels ultra guilty as he knows I was in love with him and knows we were pretty good together. Just don't get why he would block me but not his other ex? especially as we were really close even on a friendship level.
Why cut off a good friend /ex girlfriend when there's been no harassment /bad break up?
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