You're absolutely right about that. I've never really shared emotional baggage with ex-friends and family before but in this instance I think it would be beneficial for me to have friends to take my mind off of the break up. And I live across the world from my family so it's especially lonely. I'm a reserved, introverted guy so I just don't know how I would even go about trying to make friends at this stage of my life.
@VIVANT I agree with you as in half of what you said.Sharing is caring but it's also very necessary to choose people whom you share withThere are different types of support systems a person need1. Some need encouragement2. Some need to be shown reality and should be brutally honest to bring someone out of zone.3. Some would require to go on a trip to take mind off.4. Some would need to be just listened to.5. Some need no opinion but some one to listen too or speak to.6. Some just want to vent 7. Some would Beed distraction till they are ready to listen. 8. I really feel its stupid if someone doesn't share sadness bc every body will be there in your happiness it's the person gives meaning to life who can share sadness that is what gives meaning to life and not being selfish I mean other people the one who listens. Without sharing both then it's just convinience as to being with people one should be ready to accept both sadness and love both are beautiful in its own way these what become life experiences later. The one who understands this can support any one.I prefer opposite sex people to talk to bc they can be more attentive and like truthful and compassionate as well they would really care and support it depends on the people though but people are more nicer to opposite sex it's something special bc they know what mindset there own gender would have hence they could provide good support systems if they are not biased sometimes it easier to move if we make the other person bad if there is no hope at all if not I would say give it a shot one last time
I think I think you’ll be surprised because I put like the two of you could talk together and then other people who need support together so you really wouldn’t be long I just feel that way if you don’t reach out I suppose I mean it works for some people and for some people it doesn’t but I think there are a lot of I mean it makes me answers a lot of people actually do want to support they just don’t know what other people want the same thing like the two of you😊😊
Sorry that came out a little bit f*d up I’m using speechThe point is basically clear I think
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