No matter what I do or how long it's been I can't get over the break up. It's been over a year, I loved her very much. She was my 2nd relationship. I've had 4, I tried dating after her but just like the 1st one they were all abusive to me. I dont know what to do. She acually cared about me and I made memories that wouldn't go away for a lifetime with her. What should I do?