Friends with benefits?

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After a break up, should we just be friends?
What are your thoughts on it?
Situation: we are Exes that got back together right now, I didn't wanna do it. But will it turn out for the better ( getting back together after realization)

Or just remain friends w Benefits, and eventually turn into friends or strangers again?

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dudeinohio | 1.7K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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After a break up, you go your own ways, never to contact one another ever again.

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- thimmslicc
  
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  We tried. Not hard enough i guess. We still loved

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friends with benefits is for pathetic losers

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- thimmslicc
  
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  I didn't wanna agree to that. So we decided to give each other space and got back with one another.
- asshole_
  
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  Yikes
  
  Getting back with ex's. Another pathetic loser move
- thimmslicc
  
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  It's better than being beneficial friends. in my opinion
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- asshole_
  
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  No, it's actually worse
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  So far, im being told what to do. I dont like it, but to give to take right?
- asshole_
  
  1 y
  exactly
- thimmslicc
  
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  So we should just remain friends? What if we still love each other?
- asshole_
  
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  Nope
- thimmslicc
  
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  Why not?
- asshole_
  
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  Because guys and girls can't be "just friends"
  
  You really have no idea how this stuff works, do you?
- thimmslicc
  
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  My ex made me think it was ok
- thimmslicc
  
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  Friends and friends only. No matter the gender
- asshole_
  
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  Nope. it just doesn't work that way
  
  he's holding you back hun
  
  seriously. where would you be without me telling you all this stuff
  
  you need to drop your ex, and you need to drop this guy
- thimmslicc
  
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  Is he holding me back for what reasons tho?
- thimmslicc
  
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  I would be better if I never met him
- asshole_
  
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  Yeah, you would
- thimmslicc
  
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  I tried. It didn't work
- asshole_
  
  1 y
  What?
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  Leaving him
- asshole_
  
  1 y
  what about it
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  I tried leaving him. Didn't work
- asshole_
  
  1 y
  is he threatening you?
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  He told me to not do certain things. Like trying to change my habits
- asshole_
  
  1 y
  It sounds like he's threatening you
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  Is this mens way of dumping girlfriend
- asshole_
  
  1 y
  Yeah
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  Feels like he wanna use me only now
- asshole_
  
  1 y
  Sorry?
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  He prob doesn't wanna break up bcos he wants benefits
- asshole_
  
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  Isn't that how everyone is. THEY WANT SEX
- thimmslicc
  
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  Well. 2 can play that game.
- thimmslicc
  
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  He isn't getting only something. I will give him nothing
- asshole_
  
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  OK, and?
- thimmslicc
  
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  I don't know what to do. How would I present a break up
- asshole_
  
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  i think he's threatening you
- thimmslicc
  
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  Threatening me for what?
- asshole_
  
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  What do you think?
- thimmslicc
  
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  I don't know really. What could it be?
- asshole_
  
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  He's not letting you let go of him
- thimmslicc
  
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  So manipulative to me now? I can see it happening now
- asshole_
  
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  yeah!
- thimmslicc
  
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  How do i defuse the manipulative boy
- asshole_
  
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  Million dollar question
  
  that's like asking how do you get a stripper to stop being a stripper
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  Damn. At least a stripper is honest
- asshole_
  
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  not really
- thimmslicc
  
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  Okay so how do i lie like him
- asshole_
  
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  why should you lie?
- thimmslicc
  
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  Bcos he lies
- asshole_
  
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  so that means you think you should?
- thimmslicc
  
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  If I can't break up with him
- asshole_
  
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  What
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  If i act like him he will hate it
- asshole_
  
  1 y
  and?
- thimmslicc
  
  1 y
  Maybe he will break up with me too if I act like him. Evil and manipulative

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Jerre | 60 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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11 mo

I like friends with benefits as I always have someone to fuck.

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- thimmslicc
  
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  Yeah but he fell in love.
In_Trance | 1.3K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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block all contact and go your own ways

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- thimmslicc
  
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  Too much love 💘

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