Maybe but I can’t get attached to anyone anymore other than the friends I already had. I have developed more of a insecure ambivalent attachment style. There are times when I set out for another partner hoping to shake it off then when I find one I get disinterested for that reason and I hate it. The fact that people can just breakup with you for no given reason just doesn’t make dating seem worth it anymore.
That's of hers around you*
I went to several therapists I even almost went to a mental hospital because I had serious suicidal ideation within the first year of the breakup but none of it ever helped. Getting rid of everything that was hers helped a little bit but it didn’t completely get rid of her. I tried getting into new things like learning guitar or building PCs but the memories still remain.
Then you're going to have to turn to God and give it to him. What you're dealing with is not healthy at all. You have to remember that people are people. They are not God. And they could only do but so much for you. At least you took the step to try to get that help. But in the end you're just going to have to give it to God as I said before. Don't hold on to it. Let God handle it. Welcome Jesus into your life, ask others to help you in prayer if you are struggling, and read the word of God. You have to get her out of your thoughts.
Get rid of everything. Completely get rid of her out of your mind that's what you need to do. Some part in you don't want to let her go for whatever reason that is. If you feel that you may never be able to move forward without her there, or whatever it is that she took of you, you got to have it renewed in the name of Jesus.
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