To those who have cheated, why did you do it? How did it make you feel?

[Anonymous]

Emotional abuse and because they cheated first so I cheated back because I wanted them to see how hurt I felt. I am not whatsoever proud of that action and I know nothing is an excuse but I was really scared to leave because I thought I was gonna be hit and beat.

[Anonymous]

I am not saying cheating is okay but I did it due to following reasons:
- My “partner” was extremely toxic (I only stayed with him to numb the excruciating pain of unwilling solitude)
- It turned out my “partner” was not a suitable choice to numb my pain and I was lonely again
- My “best friend” who was extremely toxic as well (I only stayed with her because parting from her would have meant bullying and great emotional distress) introduced my to another boy who seemed to be friendly
- I met said boy a few times and he was indeed friendly. I wanted to stay with him but eventually I did not stay with him (I don’t know why something felt off)


To cut to the chase, I returned to my “partner” because I felt bad for doing it, causing me more pain and greater solitude and no one ever managed to numb (not even my attempt of “self-healing”).

[A_Nihilist]

I cheated on my first girlfriend when I was sixteen years old. It was a long distance relationship and we;d see each other pretty regularly.

I did it because I was young, dumb and full of cum. I did really care for her, and I didn't want to hurt her. But another woman was there and she was making me feel good. So I went with it.

I'll never forget it as cheating is unforgiveable in my opinion. I never asked for forgiveness and I never expected it.

[Anonymous]

People cheat because they're selfish and unwilling to avoid temptations.
You'll get all kinds of sob stories especially from women about how they were unhappy and it's everyone else's fault.
It's bullshit virtue signalling.

[Anonymous]

I can love more than just one woman, but society tells me it's wrong. They tell me i'm animal that only cares about sex. That i am a pig... jerk... asshole. I always loved and always will love the women in my life.

[Iron_Man]

I haven’t cheated