Damn I love that feeling lol!
Ok. Feeling ready and feeling strong but I can't be healed that quick. I been hurt quite a lot. I talk about at least 6 people and they all rejected me. The last one cut all ties with me and got engaged very quickly and she was single when I first met her. That hurted me BIG TIME!!
Hey, chin up!It happens to all of us I promise you're not the only one. People hurt us all the time but we have to see the bigger picture and accept that they weren't good enough for us in the first place. And just to make you feel better, a few years ago I dated a guy who treated me so well and acted like he was committed to me, only to leave me for another girl and actually marry her a few months later. We're all on our separate paths and if somebody isn't meant to be in ours then it's probably for the best because somebody else is going to come along and eventually somebody who is good for us will. Healing takes time and it's a process, we got to keep fighting for the life we deserve.
Almost each time a girl comes to me then a Prince charming comes in then he steals her from me then a few days later they enter a long-term relationship then soon after they get engaged then marriage. It happens almost each time when she comes to me and that how my bad luck charm usually works but it works in so many ways. Another guy on here has the same problem too and I was also hate to say that I was happy that I'm not the only one who has the same problem. I'm just telling you how my bad luck charm works but yes everyday I keep my chin up. I haven't met new people or new girls for a couple months now. I'm going to continue on staying single for quite a while and keeping healing each day. Even it becomes months, years or my lifetime.
Do think there's a pattern here that's putting you in the same situation every time? Like can you dig deep? Why aren't you the Prince Charming? Why is another guy coming and overpowering you? What do they have that you don't have? Are you in touch with your masculine energy (i. e. protecting and providing)? Are you confident? Are you forming a close connection with these women? These are all things worth considering and if you feel that you're not, maybe it's something you can work on so that you don't need to go through that again :)
When I talk to them I'm 100% myself. I even made a post on here with more details. It happens when I started talking with a female and start building the friendship with her but after a while like weeks before I had the chance to ask her out a guy who is the Prince comes in and beats me to her on asking her out then she cuts all communications with me then she's either enters a long-term relationship or she gets engaged a few days after she cuts me loose. It usually takes a while or shorter time for the prince charming comes to her. So I started thinking as if it's a pattern or something but my friends tells me its my bad luck charm.
Thanks for MHO!Do you think the issue here is that you need to be a bit quicker on claiming the girl? You never want to leave a girl hanging because there's always going to be other men around and she never belonged to anybody really.
True and I do asked her out but she always rejects me then tells me her heart belongs to someone else : ( which it's her Prince charming who came before me.
Your welcome on the MHO. I always tell single ladies. If you're looking for a boyfriend come to me then soon after someone will come to you after me. They always do.
lol I am single actually :D. Good luck and have faith!
Thanks. I'm sure sooner or later someone will come to you since you talked to me. Just be patient and when he comes just go with the flow. He'll should have extensive knowledge on how to keep you happy that's how the prince and my bad luck charm works. Good luck.
lol thanks!I hope you find someone too!
Well I'm 34 I've been waiting for over 20 years so I don't think you don't have to wait as long as I do. You sound pretty nice though. Normally people just come and go.
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I think you can wish them bad karma if you don't like them anymore after they screwed you over.
Ok it sounds like you are definitely aren't over it yet... just "let-it-go" the only person you are hurting is yourself with this anger you are holding on to