my boyfriend of one month just revealed that when we first became official, he had still been seeing his ex and did not break up with her formally until a week after. although he says he did not do anything sexually with her and only kissed her, it hurts so fucking bad. but i love him, and i’ve loved him for a long time. is there any way we can work through this so there can be trust restored? i don’t want to leave him, and he doesn’t want me to leave him, that’s why he says was being honest with me.