I broke up with my ex a month ago bc of some emotional cheating that he was doing. Is it bad to text him “Merry Christmas” on Christmas?

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We were best friends before dating (we dated for 2 years) and I feel weird not reaching out on such a big holiday. Is it bad to text him literally just “Merry Christmas”?

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Answer 1

Hannah_le

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Um hm If u wanna be friends with ur ex sure but if things are fine with u guys or u want to be cool with him then sure. But it can seem weird depending on how u know him

Answer 2

Anonymous

Do it! It's the end of the year! Don't let regret catch you.💛 smile.

Answer 3

Danny_dan92 | 234 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

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Sooo lemme get this straight.

He cheats on you.

You break up with him.

And now you wanna text him... are you stupid or what?

Asker

25 d
it was the kind of situation where it technically wasn’t cheating but he was talking to this girl in a way where it seemed like it was gonna happen any minute. it was clear he liked her but as far as I know he didn’t physically act on it he was just always talking to her like more than me
Danny_dan92

25 d
Ok... seriously sit there and re read what you just typed just now.

As many times as you need, for you to realize the reality.

Have some god damn self worth
Asker

25 d
you’re right thank you
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Danny_dan92

25 d
Mhmm

Answer 4

Asker

it was the kind of situation where it technically wasn’t cheating but he was talking to this girl in a way where it seemed like it was gonna happen any minute. it was clear he liked her but as far as I know he didn’t physically act on it he was just always talking to her like more than me

Answer 5

Danny_dan92

Ok... seriously sit there and re read what you just typed just now.

As many times as you need, for you to realize the reality.

Have some god damn self worth

Answer 6

Asker

you’re right thank you

Answer 7

Danny_dan92

Mhmm

I broke up with my ex a month ago bc of some emotional cheating that he was doing. Is it bad to text him “Merry Christmas” on Christmas?

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