Should I send Christmas gift?

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girlfriend recently ended things. And completely blocked me. Well I emailed and *67 called. Had to get stuff back and wanted to end it civilly. Well she called the police on me. I never once showed up at her house or work. All calls and emails. Maybe 8 times. So... on OkCupid. Meet to hit block but swiped. So I panicked. Called and sent a email. didn't want her calling the police. Explained it was an accident. She called the police! We've had a rocky last month but never like this. Usually make up after a few days. Would like to send an Christmas card, gift and a thank you goodbye letter. I know it's over... do still have feelings. Our last conversation she said she was back on a dating app but also said she was taking time to get herself back, told me it's my fault and goodbye. I'm not sure what to think. How she doesn't really have friends, at times how she talks about my daughter and how I should respond to my ex-wife. Also always wants to be together. So should I just walk away or send Christmas gift and letter? Its been 2 weeks since the okcupid incident.

Walk away

Send Christmas gift

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GirlGuy

Answer 1

SueShe | 153 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Influencer

Right now, it is not in your interest to send anything because she might take it as an excuse or reason to blame you for something and to call the police.

Just let the situation cool down and don't attempt to contact her. It is in your own advantage not to do anything that she could hold against you. Consider that she could collect evidence for a case against you. That would not be surprising if she already called the police before.

For your own sake, just walk away and let time do its business. If she sees that you are insisting, she may react very negatively. It seems that she does not want to hear from you again and don't give her a reason to add more oil on the fire.

Answer 2

Avicenna | 1.1K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

No way should you have any further contact with her or give her a gift under these circumstances

Answer 3

master_splinter_0301

Xper 2

How the hell could she call the police over an okcupid interaction?

Asker

24 d
Per police considered harassment since she told me to leave her alone

Answer 4

Asker

Per police considered harassment since she told me to leave her alone

Answer 5

Iron_Man | 1.4K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

Why not send it 👍 🎁

Koalamate

24 d
So she calls the police a third time that won't end well.
Iron_Man

24 d
Why?
Asker

24 d
Why what? Not send? I'm learning its not a good idea and might put me in jail
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Iron_Man

23 d
Why would That put you in jail to send a Christmas gift
Asker

23 d
Police said NO contact. Called twice before. 3rd time might be the charm to get bracelets for Christmas!!!
Iron_Man

23 d
I never even read the question I just read the headlines
Asker

23 d
All good so you agree don't send and walk away?
Iron_Man

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You never met in person it’s only a dating service MoveOn
Asker

23 d
? We dated in person for 7months. Is that what you meant?
Iron_Man

23 d
OK then let her seek you out
Asker

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Got it thank you
Iron_Man

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