me and my ex have been on and off all year she broke up with me in deceber and redcently we got into a big arugment and she says i dont listen to her and that she's dont, and maybe one shell find a guy who doesn't validate what his ex did and will listen her. she says i dont listen to her side and always think she's lying about something. she recently just said yes im done you dont listen to me so im done, she told me do whatever i need to do block her or whatever, she blocked me on instagram and on snapchat but she didn't block me on tumblr and twitter where i follow her at she also didn't block my number... does she want me to fight for her? she said she got me a engagment ring and it was suppose to be a surprise but drma early on happened so she's mailing it to me cuz she said she doesn't eneed it anymore andi can do what i want with it... i sent her a text saying i was sorry i haven't ben listening toi her and attending to her needs she did some pretty messed up stuf but thats besides the point we have a lot of drama between us but do i still have a chance to fix this since she didn't block my number i doubt she will reply cuz i mage she's furious with me but she said she's done cuz i won't listen to her, does she want me to fight for her and listen to what she got to say and stop questioning her about stuff?
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21Do you think m she wants me too? She blocked me on Instagram and Snapchat and we aren’t even Snapchat friends but she didn’t block my number or Twitter or tumblr. She told me she was done cuz I wasn’t listening to her and think she’s lying and thinking she’s just like my other. Ex’s which I never compared them to her, she’s told me one day I’ll realize I had a part to play in this as well but she said since i won’t listen she’s done.. I texted her I was sorry that I haven’t been listening and taking her needs into consideration I don't know of she’ll reply back but she also said block her and delete her number w/e I need to do cuz she’ll be out my
Life soon anyways cuz she’s deploying out country in 5 days and she’s sucidal so she means of of the two but I feel like I messed up and I don't know if she’ll give me another chance
Keep texting her
do you think she stil cares? i know she's upset with me but ill keep texting her i doubt shell reply back today im suppose to getting her ring and she's "Sexy pics" she took for me while she's gone but I don't know if im still getting those after everything but she told me she didn't need the rign anymore and i could with it what i wanted when i asked her about the ring she just tells me it doesn't matter, does she actually mean that it doesn't matter?
Just keep trying until you get her back. Hold the ring for later, and marry her Valentine's day
Yeah she cares
she's being deplyed in arifroce for 7 months she leaves jan 1 and comes back in 7 months, ill try and keep texting her, so when she said she's done she really not done? if she cares about the ring she's giving me why would she tell me it doesn't matter when she in facts cares?
She probably cares. When she gives you the ring, get on one knee and propose again. That should do it.
Im supposed to be going to bed🤦 text her and ask to meet up
oh she won't meet up with me it hard seeing her in person this year after i saw her last week i tried to see her she said no cuz she needs to elarn how to be alone without depdoing pn me and after our fight she def wotn see me let aloen talk to me
she's mailing me the ring she's not giving it to me in person
Keep trying
Yea she didn’t text me back which is normal I apologized I don't know how to fight for her do I just keep saying sorry?
She got me a engagement ring for Christmas THATS she sending me to the mail, after Our argument and when I asked her about the ring she said it doesn’t matter I’ll get it in the mail & she’s done cuz I don’t listen to her and is cusse her of lying and that I should just block her and delete her out my life cuz she’ll be gone soon or she takes herself out, does she want me to fight for her and try harder? She didn’t block my number but she blocked me on two social media but not others
Maybe she wants you to fight for her. Fight until you get tired is my suggestion. Just don't lose yourself
How do I know she wants me to fight for her?
You will never really know. What does your gut say?
Well she didn’t telll me to stop talking to her she blocked me on Instagram but didn’t block me on other social media stuff she didn’t block my number she told me she was done cuz she said I didn’t listen to her and assumed she was lying and my constant need to be riht about her doing me
Wrong like my other ex’s even tho I never mentioned my ex’s to her and she still saying I’ll get this ring in the mail but when I asked her about it she said it doesn’t matter and that I should block her and delete her cuz she won’t be around long anyways (deployment) I don't know I think I shoulda keep trying she doesn’t sound like someone who is done or she would have blocked me on eveything phone and social media
Give her time. No need to rush and overthink. She might still marry you. Try to focus on self improvement and prepare yourself to be her future husband. Just be patient with her if you love her a lot. Let her know you will wait on her
Yea I’ll try I just think I messed up questioning her cuz we both single but she’s been doing stuff that made me question her and instead of listening to her I listened to other people and it clouded my judgement
I gave her my hoodie a few days ago to have and she hasn’t mentioned giving it back so I don't know I don’t think it’s over
Its a waiting game just wait it out. Thats all you can do
I’m going to text her this tomorrow “merry Christmas, i hope your doing ok and I’m sorry about our talk we had a few days ago I’m sorry again that I made you feel that way and I hope u forgive me an allow me to make it up to you and take you out tomorrow night”
I doubt she’ll reply tho I’m sure she hates me
Why wouldn’t she block my number then she went to as far to block me on insta an snapchats and we weren’t even Snapchat friends anymore for months