Should I say I’m done and break up and stop contacting him completely to show I’m done or to see if he cares and regret for what he did?

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I needed my boyfriend to be there as I’m going through hard time in my life, he refused and he said I’m up to something and being dramatic when I asked him for him. It’s a long story. I’m too heartbroken he called me but didn’t answer. Should I go ghost? I dont want to call him. It showed his true colors when I’m going through hard time and he’s not there for me. What should I do?

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Cmoreins

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What is your relationship dynamic? Is there a reason for him to suggest that you're up to something? If you can figure that part out first, you can go from there. But, if there isn't anything, and this is the first time he's not there for you, it could be something in him that's making it hard for him to be there for you. But, if it's often that he leaves you to yourself, then I'd have a conversation with him about how it makes you feel when he isn't there for you. If he dismisses you putting yourself out there, then I'd let him go. But, if he shows real concern, apologizes and makes an effort, then you're fine to stay with him.

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My house got broken in and I’m dealing with a hard time ever since everything has been changed. Should I call him back since I hung up on him. Or leave him until he reaches out and apologize
Cmoreins

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I'm sorry to hear that. Either way, the way he dismisses you isn't okay. But also don't take his behaviour and justify it from what you went through. He's still responsible for how he treats you regardless of what happened. I wouldn't call him back, but give some space. Then when it's all settled down from emotions, i'd share about how you felt by the way he treated you to see if he's open to talking.
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Thank you

Answer 2

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My house got broken in and I’m dealing with a hard time ever since everything has been changed. Should I call him back since I hung up on him. Or leave him until he reaches out and apologize

Answer 3

Cmoreins

I'm sorry to hear that. Either way, the way he dismisses you isn't okay. But also don't take his behaviour and justify it from what you went through. He's still responsible for how he treats you regardless of what happened. I wouldn't call him back, but give some space. Then when it's all settled down from emotions, i'd share about how you felt by the way he treated you to see if he's open to talking.

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Thank you

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melnc | 1.6K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

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Being in touch with him is not a good thing, because it could make things worse. What you should do is rely on yourself to solve things. And it's okay to ask for advice, I'm sure everyone will give the best advice to deal with the situation.

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