If u were deeply in love w someone and she/he cheated would u be able to still work through the relationship?

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Lol my dad cheated like 5 times and my mom kept w him. They are now divorced but not because of the cheating, but other things.
I’m curious if u were deeply in love could u work the the relationship/marriage and stay w them? Or would it depend on how they cheated? (For instance someone told me they’d still stay if they cheated while drunk because it doesn’t mean the cheater doesn’t love them but was drunk and made a huge mistake) etc I don't know
I know I couldn’t handle it, the trust is broken.
but would you be able to recover or try to repair the relationship and give them a second chance?

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chriscdi | 365 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

i know for a fact no matter how in love i am, love isn't powerful enough to blind me from a situation like this, cause i got loyalty in my DNA and loyals can only be with loyals cause it won't click if it isn't so i know she would have to fuck off, cause i know ima be heartbroken but giving her another chance is just gonna cause more pain in the future, long story short, id rather take a bullet to the leg than take a bullet to the head.

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Same I couldn’t either. It would cause you more pain in the future because you couldn’t forget that she cheated or!
Asker

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Or? *
chriscdi

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thats part of it and considering the fact i gave her another chance shows a sign of weakness and can make her feel like she can manipulate me because of my love for her and she could end up doing it again, once a cheater always a cheater after all, with me you only get one shot, dont fuck it up or you get fucked up cause im dippin, if i can go cold turkey on my weed, i can go cold turkey on a whore 🤷🏽‍♂️
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I don’t think it shows a sign of weakness but damn I could never continue w the relationship lol
chriscdi

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i guess thats what makes us different, different point of views, agree to disagree but i know something we can both agree with is that it will be toxic if the relationship continues

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Asker

Same I couldn’t either. It would cause you more pain in the future because you couldn’t forget that she cheated or!

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Asker

Or? *

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chriscdi

thats part of it and considering the fact i gave her another chance shows a sign of weakness and can make her feel like she can manipulate me because of my love for her and she could end up doing it again, once a cheater always a cheater after all, with me you only get one shot, dont fuck it up or you get fucked up cause im dippin, if i can go cold turkey on my weed, i can go cold turkey on a whore 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Asker

I don’t think it shows a sign of weakness but damn I could never continue w the relationship lol

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chriscdi

i guess thats what makes us different, different point of views, agree to disagree but i know something we can both agree with is that it will be toxic if the relationship continues

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MED2525

Xper 1

No, once you break that trust you can never regain it and the relationship will just become a toxic mess

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Yea I agree. Plus once a cheater always a cheater they say
MED2525

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I wouldn't say that
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Have u cheated b4 ? Lol usually cheaters end up cheating again

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Asker

Yea I agree. Plus once a cheater always a cheater they say

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MED2525

I wouldn't say that

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Asker

Have u cheated b4 ? Lol usually cheaters end up cheating again

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extremelybored

Xper 5

Nope, you're out.

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Same

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strangersmiles

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meh yes but its different

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U would? Wym it’s diff like u just gonna date but not w intention to marry. Or u still be w her but it’s diff cuz lost of trust

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Asker

U would? Wym it’s diff like u just gonna date but not w intention to marry. Or u still be w her but it’s diff cuz lost of trust

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Lunatic1

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Nope. She cheats, we're done.

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Iron_Man | 1.4K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

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No way

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So if u were married you’d divorce?
Iron_Man

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Everything is over

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Asker

So if u were married you’d divorce?

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Iron_Man

Everything is over

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