How long does it take to heal from the loss of someone you we’re close too?

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My ex boyfriend died. We were together for ten years. We broke up around 5 years ago but always talked. Recently I was thinking about get back together with him and I was thinking about it a lot. I tried to tell him a few times but anyways he died last week so I’ll never get that chance. I feel horrible. Will things ever get better?

Answer 1

Guffrus | 84 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

Sure they will.

Time is the healer they say though that isn't exactly it.

It does take time to process your feelings etc but thats not an automatic thing you actually have to do it, you have to let yourself feel what it is you are feeling and think it through and come to terms with it etc.

But even if you dont process your feelings time will still move you away from the place you are right now.

Its a learning experience, life is a one shot deal and you will regret the things you dont do more than the things you do do which later turned out to be mistakes.

Life goes on, take the time you need to grieve properly and then get on with your life, you aren't dead but you will be soon so try not to waste the short time that you have.

Answer 2

vald9inches | 103 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

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You have my condolences... Grieve for him but afterwards live your life to its fullest

Answer 3

eshalltheway

Xper 3

Differs from people to people

Answer 4

chriscdi | 369 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

time heals all wounds

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