We are 24. The pandemic happened and things in my relationship changed for the worse. We have our own apartments in California. Rent is paid for almost a year. Once the pandemic happened my boyfriend lost a family member. He said he was going to visit family for a little while. I thought he was leaving for maybe a week or two. He left me for 4 months! When he got back I asked him if he minded me being gone for 4 months and leaving him. He said that he did not care. When he got back in town he stayed in town for 2 months and then left me for another 2 months. Things got so rocky between us that I said we need to take a break with things. He then said he wanted to ask me to marry him this year. Am I wrong for thinking he is not good boyfriend material for leaving that long? I know that it’s a pandemic but sheesh when times got hard he literally left me in the dust then said he wanted to get married.