Say you have 3 year old. Your wife thinks you spend too little time with him. First the sex stopped, ok. That you can live with. After accepting that, now comes the threats about if you don't focus more on your son she will divorse you. What the heck is up with that? She knew what kinda guy she married. Just because she changed after getting pregnant does not mean you did. And its not like you spend no time with your kid at all.