I was never mean to him but I just couldn’t stand feeling suffocated.
Wtf, dude, I have an ex who still occasionally emails me. I blocked him on everything just like you did and I told him why we r breaking up so he can have closure and it’s been almost a year and he still won’t stop bothering me. What even more weird is he bought me a birthday gift like guys just don’t know how to control their emotions
Why did you break up with him?
I think he may be in love with you. I do feel for them. But we also can’t force feelings and that would be unfair to both them and ourselves.
I broke up with him because the chemistry just fizzled out. We had different ideas about kids and how we wanted to manage our lives etc.
He did tell me he was in love with me but we only dated for 8 months. I feel as if he’s more obsessed I mean, he abused me emotionally throughout the entire relationship so I don’t see how one can be “in love” treat someone that way. Also like you mentioned, I was not feeling anything towards him. When I broke up with him I was very cold and heartless. He cried and begged me not to leave but I just didn’t care about the relationship or him anymore. When he cried in front of me, I feel no sympathy for him. That is how I knew I was truly done and I told him I was not attracted to him or wanted him and he kept calling and texting and crying to win me back. Do u think this is obsession or love?
Hmmm well to answer that, in what ways was he emotionally abusive, can you remember any examples?
Oh of course. Well for one, this guy has a really bad temper. I mean seriously, he would get so angry at me for the tiniest things. There’s too many incidents so I’ll just list 3 major ones: Example: My ex got mad at me because he told me that someone hacked into his PS4 account so I told him be careful who knows the password. He got so angry and he started cursing at me from A to Z, which is really weird because I didn’t say anything offensive. Ex #2: I caught him cheating on me. I saw Snapchat messages of him telling another girl how good that she looked. I confronted him and asked why is he cheating. He got mad at me for going through his phone instead of owning up to him cheating. Then I got mad and tried to go home. He stood in front of his bedroom door preventing me from being able to leave. And he yelled and cursed at me for a whole hour.Ex #3: This is the one that broke the straw on the camels back. One night I was spending the night in his apartment and mind you, my ex is extremely lazy and disgusting. He was playing the game and I was getting ready for bed and he said “I don’t think im going to shower tonight.” And I jokingly said “eww, you have been outside playing basketball, a shower is what you need.” Again, he threw the game controller down and started having his stupid temper tantrum. I forgot what he said because this was like 8 months ago but I remember him cursing at me and gettin all in my face and calling me a stupid dumb bitch, I tried to call the cops but he took my phone preventing me to do so. Then he told me to leave the apartment (it’s 3am at this point. He’s been screaming and yelling at me since approximately 1:30an) and I was going to leave the apartment and then he said “no you’re not leaving.” And I tried to just lay on the bed and fall asleep. I was tired of hearing his voice by this point. He did all this yelling from 1am to 5:45am and I’m not even kidding. I was dozing off and I believe at some point of us arguing
I said “when the morning comes, I’m leaving your ass.” And while I was trying to sleep he just kept pestering me and asking for reassurance asking me things like “you love me right?” And I would ignore him and he would annoyingly say “you need to say it back, I don’t want you to leave me.” Next day, he is still texting and calling like nonstop but his texts went from anger to sadness and begging for forgiveness. It’s a really long story
That doesn’t sound too bad from what you’ve said apart from being annoying. That sounds more like neediness to me.
Which part sounds needy?
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