
I was talking with my mother and made a somewhat rude remark towards my father that I think it's deserved. She got upset and said I should still show some respect towards him even though she hates him and said much worse things about him.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!That would be an absolute lie. Yes, you carried the child, but you did not impregnate yourself. Women like you are not mature enough to be parents. Both parents bring some good to their children. I grew up never knowing who my father was. All my life my mother made him out to be a bad guy, but recently my grandmother revealed to me that he tried so many times to have a relationship with me and my mom was being an ass. I am 27 and just now getting to meet my father. I've lost most of the respect I had for my mother for lying to me and denying me a potential relationship with my father just to spite him. If I saw a "mother" do to a child what my mother has done, I'd ensure she never get the chance to lie about the father again. An ex's grudge has no place in making parenting decisions.
The reason your thinking makes you immature is because you are putting your emotions above the welfare of the child. Your perspective of the world and people in it is not the only correct solution and should not be pushed on your children.
You may be right in your own way, but I can't let the man who doesn't love me see my own child. Or I would tell my child that the man I had just met and who respected me more than his father was his father. If I did the opposite, then my child might love his biological father more than I do. And I am very jealous in this situation. Because mothers are more important for their children.
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