Every time i get upset he will get 10000x more upset and then threaten divorce until my feelings go away. He does this all the time because instead of listening and understanding my feelings, he thinks i should not have feelings and just focus on worshipping him and making him happy... This has been going on for 11 years. by the way he does not make me happy but i try to make him happy. He mostly ignores me and talks about himself and complains about life.