Why tf am I keep agreeing?

Question

After a breakup, I’ve been focusing on me, I like the attention but I am not interested in anyone again. I kinda accepted that I will most likely find no right man so I don’t even search anymore. I’m just friendly and nice but thats it.

Many guys try to meet me but I keep agreeing to it even though that is the least thing I want to do right now. Nothing is wrong with anyone but I just don’t even want any guy for a while. I’m too disappointed and hopeless but I can’t seem to stop saying yes!

I regret it immediately and try to postpone it then kinda slowly ghost them because I get so many texts from many people and I don’t even open so they kinda get lost. I know most of them just trynna bang me since they ask me out based on looks, they don’t really know me but WTF IS UP WITH ME? I never been like this before.

Answer 1

shushhhhh

Xper 5

Nahhhh fan stop with this bullshit. Grow a pair of tits and speak your mind already. It is OKAY to say no. You are not being rude, it is not disrespectful. In fact what you are doing is behaving very maturely by doing what you believe is best for you. By cowarding out and saying yes to everything you disrespect your emotional well-being and end up causing preventable pain.

Speak up ffs

Asker

27 d
But why am I suddenly feeling this way. I was always a girl who moved on quick. I rushed in relationships, I could never be alone. Now I can’t imagine myself trusting someone again. That’s how sad this is. 😢
shushhhhh

27 d
You sound like you have a lot of unresolved issues. What kind of problems do you face in relationships and dating
Asker

27 d
Well everyone I ever dated, disappointed me. Nobody seems to be serious this days nor mature. At least guys I’m choosing.
Show All Show Less
shushhhhh

26 d
And that's the problem, it's the men you choose to date. What type of man do you find yourself dating
Asker

26 d
Tbh even if I don’t date them. They could be chasing me but when I show interest they start acting stupid so I delete them.
shushhhhh

26 d
Then there's no need to be with these guys. You don't have to be in a relationship all the time, it's okay to be single

Answer 2

Asker

But why am I suddenly feeling this way. I was always a girl who moved on quick. I rushed in relationships, I could never be alone. Now I can’t imagine myself trusting someone again. That’s how sad this is. 😢

Answer 3

shushhhhh

You sound like you have a lot of unresolved issues. What kind of problems do you face in relationships and dating

Answer 4

Asker

Well everyone I ever dated, disappointed me. Nobody seems to be serious this days nor mature. At least guys I’m choosing.

Answer 5

shushhhhh

And that's the problem, it's the men you choose to date. What type of man do you find yourself dating

Answer 6

Asker

Tbh even if I don’t date them. They could be chasing me but when I show interest they start acting stupid so I delete them.

Answer 7

shushhhhh

Then there's no need to be with these guys. You don't have to be in a relationship all the time, it's okay to be single

Answer 8

Anonymous

It's because you've not moved on id say give yourself time

Answer 9

jasco | 98 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

Your to nice

Why tf am I keep agreeing?

AI Bot Choice

Most Helpful Girl

What Girls & Guys Said

Related myTakes