After 8 months of a break I still get angry?

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I broke up with my girlfriend/bestfriend 8 months ago, I still get sudden flashbacks, I still get angry when the thought of her comes, I also get mad when I see another lady talking the same way... I dont want to be this person I am now. I used to be confident and easy going what the fuck happend to me.

Yes i lost my best friend and Girlfriend but... How can something do this much damage?

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Ashlyxx

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I feel that I think about things that happened to me and it sickens me inside, I think why wasn’t I enough for one person, I felt hidden and worthless and like they couldn’t care about me. but it can make you so much stronger and eventually you’ll get your confidence. I still question my self worth everyday now and compare myself to other women, but I know what I’m worth.

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whatdoyouwantt | 159 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

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How long were you together? Do you have any other friends?

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We were 5 years best friends, 8 months together. Yes i have other friends but some of them are common with her
whatdoyouwantt

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Uh that really sucks but u just need to look forward. there's a reason you broke up. Just remember bad sides of the relationship and I’m sure it will get easier. Also lose the hope.

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We were 5 years best friends, 8 months together. Yes i have other friends but some of them are common with her

Answer 4

whatdoyouwantt

Uh that really sucks but u just need to look forward. there's a reason you broke up. Just remember bad sides of the relationship and I’m sure it will get easier. Also lose the hope.

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OlderAndWiser | 1.9K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

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Breaking up: you may want to die. . . but you won't, so do yourself a favor and deal with it!

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Hmmm maybe but not every situation should be taken that way

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Asker

Hmmm maybe but not every situation should be taken that way

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madisonblakelybby

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I feel that it can only cause damage if you haven’t met up with your true self yet.

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I dont get it... Could you explain more

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Asker

I dont get it... Could you explain more

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Anonymous

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