How common is it for someone to dump you and you don't understand what you did wrong?

Both guys and girls? I guess this happens all the time, but I was just curious. Then somehow you pretty much get over it and you inadvertently find out what the reason was like 3 months later through a friend and it's like Deja vu all over again.
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