How common is it for someone to dump you and you don't understand what you did wrong?

Question

Both guys and girls? I guess this happens all the time, but I was just curious. Then somehow you pretty much get over it and you inadvertently find out what the reason was like 3 months later through a friend and it's like Deja vu all over again.

Answer 1

jennifer_bloom | 409 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Influencer

I was ghosted in 2018 after what seemed like a perfect date and did not know why until almost a year later when he told me he ghosted me for caring too much about money and status - this was his conclusion because I kept posting vacation and restaurant photos on Facebook and bragging about my high grades in university.

red324

10 d
So then what? Did you get back together?
red324

10 d
That's a dumb reason to not see someone again.
jennifer_bloom

10 d
We talked for a short while cause he was considering that his initial assumptions about my character may have been incorrect but later he decided he didn’t trust me and my interest in him had also declined because of the previous ghosting, I was not sure at that point I was still into him.

Answer 2

red324

So then what? Did you get back together?

Answer 3

red324

That's a dumb reason to not see someone again.

Answer 4

jennifer_bloom

We talked for a short while cause he was considering that his initial assumptions about my character may have been incorrect but later he decided he didn’t trust me and my interest in him had also declined because of the previous ghosting, I was not sure at that point I was still into him.

Answer 5

Smashingdoozy

Yoda

I never questioned if I did anything wrong I just assumed the person wasn't feeling it anymore or wasn't as into me as they first thought.

red324

11 d
I always assume it's something I did because well it usually is.
Smashingdoozy

11 d
I usually immediately apologize for any mistakes I've made
Smashingdoozy

11 d
If their reason wasn't because I fucked up on something and not anything to do with the things I said above then they dumped me for my personality and I'm not going to apologize for that and knowing that is the reason doesn't help me better myself at all
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red324

11 d
How often have you been dumped? you're cute
Smashingdoozy

10 d
Well from a relationship like 3 times. But also like had a few people tell me they don't want to continue seeing me after a date or two
red324

10 d
I got dumped 2 months in right when I was trying to make things official boyfriend/girlfriend. I don't know if it's still being dumped if you only dated 2 months. I guess it is. How embarrassing.

Answer 6

red324

I always assume it's something I did because well it usually is.

Answer 7

Smashingdoozy

I usually immediately apologize for any mistakes I've made

Answer 8

Smashingdoozy

If their reason wasn't because I fucked up on something and not anything to do with the things I said above then they dumped me for my personality and I'm not going to apologize for that and knowing that is the reason doesn't help me better myself at all

Answer 9

red324

How often have you been dumped? you're cute

Answer 10

Smashingdoozy

Well from a relationship like 3 times. But also like had a few people tell me they don't want to continue seeing me after a date or two

Answer 11

red324

I got dumped 2 months in right when I was trying to make things official boyfriend/girlfriend. I don't know if it's still being dumped if you only dated 2 months. I guess it is. How embarrassing.

Answer 12

exitseven | 65 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Yoda

Whenever somebody dumped me I always broke off all contact with her and try to move on with my life. Most of the time I never found out what the problem was. Mostly I figured that I am not really easy to live with.

exitseven

7 d
Thank you for the MHO.😊😊😊

Answer 13

exitseven

Thank you for the MHO.😊😊😊

Answer 14

msc545 | 193 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

Whenever this happens to me, and it has happened a lot, I just figure that the woman has met somebody taller richer and better looking than I am. I don't worry that much about it anymore.

red324

10 d
Well I wouldn't put yourself down like that, but I think when they do end things randomly early on then it probably means they found someone they like better unfortunately.
red324

10 d
Or in my case the friend that you were trying to get to help you is a fucking idiot and messed everything up. Remember a woman doesn't know how to pickup another woman.
msc545

10 d
I don't involve friends, so I think it's just another better guy.

Answer 15

red324

Well I wouldn't put yourself down like that, but I think when they do end things randomly early on then it probably means they found someone they like better unfortunately.

Answer 16

red324

Or in my case the friend that you were trying to get to help you is a fucking idiot and messed everything up. Remember a woman doesn't know how to pickup another woman.

Answer 17

msc545

I don't involve friends, so I think it's just another better guy.

Answer 18

Brainsbeforebeauty | 118 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Influencer

Not common at all...

Answer 19

Alpha4U

Xper 3

Most men and women dont know how to play the game. men are becoming more simps and women more delusional.

Answer 20

princeofromance

Xper 5

Your a man. You are not suppose to understand what you did wrong.

red324

10 d
Why do you say that? Because they come up with a reason that doesn't make sense anyways?
princeofromance

10 d
I am simply saying that men will never fully understand women, and their logic.

Answer 21

red324

Why do you say that? Because they come up with a reason that doesn't make sense anyways?

Answer 22

princeofromance

I am simply saying that men will never fully understand women, and their logic.

Answer 23

Chikky

Yoda

Not often at all

Answer 24

whatdoyouwantt | 157 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Xper 6

What was the reason

Answer 25

Jeep_lover

Xper 4

Same here

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