Do you see a break up as A sucess or a failure?

[OlderAndWiser]

You go into a relationship hoping that his new person is The One and, when you break up, you must admit that you were wrong. It is difficult to rationalize calling that a "success." However, most relationships do not succeed and that fact that this relationship failed does not mean that there is something wrong with you, either. Every relationship teaches something about what you want from a partner, what you are willing to give, what are your deal breakers, etc. As long as you learn some lessons from the relationship, it is not a loss and it is actually just a part of the path to becoming a better potential partner in your next relationship.

[Jamie05rhs]

Dating is an exploratory process. If at any time you choose to discontinue that process, that is totally okay. If you discover that you're not right for one another, it's much better to go ahead and end things than to continue the engagement and get married to that person.

However, I will say that if I was in a relationship, I would PREFER to keep it going. Because I am an optimist, and I like to work hard to make relationships succeed. Also, I am a very loyal person, and I don't give up on people easily.

[CharlyQuinn_]

As I told you, Considering who she is and what does she does, You have a million of the fans envious of you not only was you dating a band member, you was on first name terms with most of them. So what you didn't see her big tatties you were being respectful.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Failure. But success works too.

[AmandaYVR]

It's not a 'success' but it's also not a failure.
It just is.

People meet, spend some time together, and eventually, often move on. Better that than to stay closed off and never interact.

[loves2learn]

Neither. A learning opportunity.


Just like if a potty training child has an accident, it’s an opportunity for them to learn. Not a failure.


I relate everything back to mom life lol

[whatdoyouwantt]

Depends how you put it but I see it as a failure as I didn’t meet the right man yet then, so mission failed

[Jjpayne]

I think it's about how you look at it. As long as you learn from it, I think it's good

[legalboxers]

½ and ½.. If its going no where.. or as in my life.. or death move..

[JosyJosy]

A failure and a lesson

[Likes2drive]

Usually a failure