Message From My Ex - Do I Reply?

Question

I just woke up at 3am to find a text from one of my exes saying he wishes me well and misses me.

by the way we broke up because he was verbally abusive and always liked photos of other girls when I said I didn’t like it.

Should I Reply?

NO

YES

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GirlGuy

Answer 1

DaveToo

Xper 6

This is typical of abuse men, (and women), they are all apologetic in the hopes you'll take them back. Once you give in they go back to their abusive ways. No reply is my answer.

Answer 2

TheBigGuy9

Xper 6

I wouldn’t. Those are two actions that are incredibly hard to change. Not saying he hasn’t though. How long has it been?

Alyssa11

1 mo
Two years!
TheBigGuy9

1 mo
Meet him in public first. Text you at 3am. I know for a fact my mind is different at night vs when I wake up in the morning. 3am most likely drunk and horny with currently no women in his stable?
Alyssa11

1 mo
I’ve decided to ignore him it’s probably for the best. But yes 3am is very random...
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TheBigGuy9

1 mo
That’s called a reflecting period. Either you go home and sleep, fuck, or sit at home going through all your exes you screwed things up with
Alyssa11

1 mo
Damn that’s deep
TheBigGuy9

1 mo
I know a lot about a lot of things. I have the experience. Add me as a friend if you want. I have lots of good advice.
Alyssa11

1 mo
Thanks

Answer 3

Alyssa11

Two years!

Answer 4

TheBigGuy9

Meet him in public first. Text you at 3am. I know for a fact my mind is different at night vs when I wake up in the morning. 3am most likely drunk and horny with currently no women in his stable?

Answer 5

Alyssa11

I’ve decided to ignore him it’s probably for the best. But yes 3am is very random...

Answer 6

TheBigGuy9

That’s called a reflecting period. Either you go home and sleep, fuck, or sit at home going through all your exes you screwed things up with

Answer 7

Alyssa11

Damn that’s deep

Answer 8

TheBigGuy9

I know a lot about a lot of things. I have the experience. Add me as a friend if you want. I have lots of good advice.

Answer 9

Alyssa11

Thanks

Answer 10

DJB72

Yoda

You broke up because he was verbally abusive. Abuse is an escalating issue. It escalates quickly and you deserve better.

Answer 11

CubaPirate

Guru

Why should you've moved on and obviously better without him

Alyssa11

1 mo
Thanks

Answer 12

Alyssa11

Thanks

Answer 13

Justneedtokno

Explorer

Yeah don’t do it. For example my ex texted me yesterday asking me if I was home. Code for he wants some ass. I saw it and I slept

Answer 14

bluesue317

Xper 1

It's always easy to go back to someone you have history with, especially when the separation is fresh. Stay distant for the time being, give yourself space from him so that you don't end up talking yourself into possibly taking them back if they ask.

Answer 15

DiegoO | 443 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

Eh, no. He wants to drawg you into the same spyral. Block his account and move on.

Answer 16

Luckycharms12 | 73 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Yoda

No he should treated you good when you where together

Answer 17

msc545 | 215 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

Depends on what you want to have happen or not happen with him...

Answer 18

Andres77

Yoda

Let him regret losing you

Answer 19

chriscdi | 386 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

i dont think u should

Answer 20

Jamie05rhs | 146 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

Do not reply. Ignore.

Answer 21

7771999

Yoda

Don't reply to a worthless idiot

Answer 22

In_Trance | 835 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

ignore it

Answer 23

Iron_Man | 1.6K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Master

It’s up to you

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