ohshee | 256 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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No I don't because once I've been hurt , I won't allow it to hurt me again you can try it but it's not going to work, I become stronger ,, and refuse to feel that pain again and if they want to try it get it on because I'm gone
This is the only way to be because I refuse let anybody ever make me feel like that again all I need to do is feel something once to understand there's no need to feel it again and in doing so we become stronger and we also learn how to treat people
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Not ONCE but after getting hurt 3 times. One or two times we can overlook and still hope for the positive one because we are our own example. But when you keep getting hurt 3 or more times, then you maintain your distance and carefully observe any person who looks promising but then they also give wrong vibes, then you see their real face. So now I have forever trust issues.
It's called 'attachment style' and gets formed before, during early childhood That said, stepping away in a supporting environment results in learning you can accept a new set of expectations, not just abandonment/rejection/neglect (or general invalidation)
Bklynbadboy12 | 57 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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Yes I totally agree but I've also learned that each person is an individual and you have to treat them as such. Just because the last was an asshole doesn't mean the next guy will. If you live you life afraid to love you miss out on the best part of life
No. It applies for some, but heartache is a part of life. It makes you appreciate the good moments that much more. If you never felt heartache or the pain of a breakup, life would just be boring.
Nope, do not agree. Yes, it happens but if one is strong they will learn from the experience and go forth and try again and again until a match that works is found. Hell, I'm on my third wife (25 years now) after the first two and numerous girlfriends in-between. Put of life. Live it!
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DJB72 | 57 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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It's human nature. We all are motivated by one of two things: avoid pain, gain pleasure. Most people are more heavily weighted to avoid pain, so if they've been hurt once they're reluctant to go into a similar situation.
Yes, I think everyone has this fear. But what is life without a little heartache? It adds resilience to someone's character, but it takes awhile to realize that part. Grief comes with love.. it's the price we pay.
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DizzyDesii | 351 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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Nahh. I still attach easily and break away just as easily 🤣
@7771999 its not a matter of looking while dating someone... but its a matter of remember all the hotties and 99% matches out there. So its like... okay we’re over... i’ll just find another you... wait no... a BETTER You
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