Do You Agree With This?

[ohshee]

No I don't because once I've been hurt , I won't allow it to hurt me again you can try it but it's not going to work, I become stronger ,, and refuse to feel that pain again and if they want to try it get it on because I'm gone

[Anonymous]

Not ONCE but after getting hurt 3 times.
One or two times we can overlook and still hope for the positive one because we are our own example.
But when you keep getting hurt 3 or more times, then you maintain your distance and carefully observe any person who looks promising but then they also give wrong vibes, then you see their real face. So now I have forever trust issues.

[msbrightness]

It's called 'attachment style' and gets formed before, during early childhood
That said, stepping away in a supporting environment results in learning you can accept a new set of expectations, not just abandonment/rejection/neglect (or general invalidation)

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes I totally agree but I've also learned that each person is an individual and you have to treat them as such. Just because the last was an asshole doesn't mean the next guy will. If you live you life afraid to love you miss out on the best part of life

[MCheetah]

No. It applies for some, but heartache is a part of life. It makes you appreciate the good moments that much more. If you never felt heartache or the pain of a breakup, life would just be boring.

[Shivraj12s]

I don't think it is that hard to move on
People come amd go from your life
You may attached to someone badly
But you should be prepared for everything

Its just like
You born without them
You can bloody survive without them

For me
Its not even hard to move on
I do it very easily

[najekim]

Nope, do not agree. Yes, it happens but if one is strong they will learn from the experience and go forth and try again and again until a match that works is found. Hell, I'm on my third wife (25 years now) after the first two and numerous girlfriends in-between. Put of life. Live it!

[DJB72]

It's human nature. We all are motivated by one of two things: avoid pain, gain pleasure. Most people are more heavily weighted to avoid pain, so if they've been hurt once they're reluctant to go into a similar situation.

[This_is_my_username]

Yes, I think everyone has this fear. But what is life without a little heartache? It adds resilience to someone's character, but it takes awhile to realize that part. Grief comes with love.. it's the price we pay.

[Andres77]

Once bitten, twice shy.
It's a thing... human nature.

[DizzyDesii]

Nahh. I still attach easily and break away just as easily 🤣

[Anonymous]

It's a logical reaction and every woman I dated since her has hurt me in some way too.

[msc545]

Sort of. It takes a special kind of hurt to cause this problem, not just any hurt.

[Anonymous]

you remind me of my ex even with tony montana picture😂

[serious]

Yes, I think that is very true.

[TonyMetal___86]

I agree with you miss alyssa rapunzel

[nikhnikh]

STAY SINGLE AND OBSERVE. IT'S NOT A JOKE

[Angelina25]

Oh yes.

[COMMODOREII]

I sure feel that yes