I broke up with my ex a month ago and lately I've been listening to a lot of his favorite musicians. I feel like in a weird way it helps me connect with him because I know all the songs he loves and the artist that sings them. Sometimes I feel happy when I listen to them but mostly it brings sadness. I do miss him but I won't and can't go back to him. Has this ever happened to anyone else? Why do you think I do this? In a way it feels like I'm turning into him and developing an interest in things he enjoyed and picking up on some of his personality traits. Is this normal? We dated almost 2 years.