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Him and I were together for 4 years and we have a child. He never has done anything like this and he says he doesn't know why he says and feels these things
Girl why didn’t you mention you had a child with him? That changes the whole thing then. Best thing to do is talk to him, see what he wants in this relationship and let him know what you want and just start a fresh new story. Just remember though it’s not only you in this it’s your child too whatever you do will affect your child also.
He also flirts with me and used to play video games with me behind her back. She even messaged me a few times when they argue saying I can have him etc
If I were you as hard as it is, I would get him to choose it’s either you or that other girl. You can’t be his side chick, he’s either with you or not and stepping around the other girls boundaries isn’t fair on her either.Ask him if he wants you then he needs to leave the other girl I it’s not fair on you wasting your time on him if he is just messing around with you, be firm with him. That way you can move on if he doesn’t l, their are plenty of other kinder men out there who will treat you like the queen you are :)
I asked him is he trying to hurt me or is he regretting and he said he isn't trying to hurt me. So I'm confused
Good he isn’t trying to hurt you although he didn’t say he was regretting? It sounds like he doesn’t want to lose you but he doesn’t want to get back with you. He’s just stringing you along, many guys will flirt and play video games as if it is normal.. it’s a game changer if he made a move on you such as tried to kiss you or touched you. But what you are messaging makes it sound as if he is just stringing you along but like I’ve said before best way to know what is really going is to ask him because you won’t know what he actually is thinking and wants unless you ask.
I want to give him a chance but he has a girlfriend too
Then forget about him.