How would you approach the situation? Would you listen to her side of the story first, or just end it? Does it make a difference if she tells you or someone else does? Would you get into a fight over it with the guy she cheated with? If you took her back, would you make her make it up to you?
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I don't think her side of the story makes much of a difference. Feel free to give me an example, but I just can't think of a good excuse.
Here is the thing: if it was a one time thing, I'd ask her why she told me. It only ruins things. I'd rather not know and have her make it up to me by being a wonderful girlfriend from here on. Telling just so you feel better is selfish. and that's a deal breaker. If it's a ongoing thing I'd want to know. Not like there is a way back.
And yes, finding out from someone else is even worse. So you better make damn sure it doesn't happen. So yes, cleaning up your sh*t after cheating is a lot of work. But if you want that relationship to continue then you have to do that. There is no easy way out other than the door.0