How would you approach the situation? Would you listen to her side of the story first, or just end it? Does it make a difference if she tells you or someone else does? Would you get into a fight over it with the guy she cheated with? If you took her back, would you make her make it up to you?
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I don't think her side of the story makes much of a difference. Feel free to give me an example, but I just can't think of a good excuse.
Here is the thing: if it was a one time thing, I'd ask her why she told me. It only ruins things. I'd rather not know and have her make it up to me by being a wonderful girlfriend from here on. Telling just so you feel better is selfish. and that's a deal breaker. If it's a ongoing thing I'd want to know. Not like there is a way back.
And yes, finding out from someone else is even worse. So you better make damn sure it doesn't happen. So yes, cleaning up your sh*t after cheating is a lot of work. But if you want that relationship to continue then you have to do that. There is no easy way out other than the door.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE