My ex and I are pretty much back together but we haven't put a label on it yet. I understand my dad has his concerns and that's fine but the problem is, is he keeps bringing it up pretty much every time I talk to him, is banning him from coming over and now says he's going to have a talk with him.. I'm getting sick and tired of this bullsh-t I'm a damn adult (21) and I can do what I want with my life! I know, the joys of living with parents. It's a completely temporary situation and I will be moving out soon but I just feel so much resentment towards my dad and I keep telling him to 'stop' but to no avail... What would you do or say if you were in my shoes? cause this is getting pretty ridiculous and I don't want this to wreck my relationship with my dad but I'm fed up.
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I am in your shoes! haha
Though, I am officially with my boyfriend. We have had a rocky road..and currently, I have not told my dad that we are back together..I am out of the country..so I figure when I get back I may do it...Though, I am also making sure things will last first before I do...
However, my father has always disliked my boyfriend. always. I know how you feel...you start to hate your own father it feels like. You know you love him..but, it gets aggravating because he is trying to make you choose him or the guy. And, they shouldn't do that. My dad won't even let me bring mine anywhere around him period. It is aggravating. But, I just try to let my dad know less and less about him. It seems to work. I also had a conversation with my dad telling him that I know he loves me and wants best for me..but, I am going to do what I feel is right at the moment. And, there is nothing you will be able to do about it. If he is a piece of sh*t like you say, then I will learn from it.
Just realize that your dad loves you very very much and he is only trying to protect you. Tell him that he is pushing you away and that he needs to back off and let you control your own life...but, in a nice way of course.
Best wishes. xx0