- Can't let go of youVote A
- Seek revengeVote B
- Mad because they are hurtVote C
- OtherVote D
Why wouldn't an ex return your stuff back to you?
What Guys Said 7
A - He wants to keep this connection with you, even in the midst of the chaos of his emotions.2
possibly he has a love that is jealous and doesn't allow him to have any contact with any one from his past? My wife almost divorced me early on in our marriage when my mom called and put an ex on the phone with me when all the girl wanted to do was apologize for the way she did me.
C seems most logical.0
what does he have of yours?0
what is it?0
What Girls Said 12
I would pick...
A or C
Depends on the situation.
But, seriously..he could not be completely over you...?
And, wants to keep something that reminds him of you.1
if they hated you, then he probably threw everything away... Otherwise, he most likely is thinking you're using that as an excuse to keep in contact with him. What is it that he has and if he's engaged, do you still want it back that badly?0
its mostly girls who like to keep their exes stuff
But its also girls who burn their exes stuff.
In your case,it seems he wants to keep those memories.
what kinda stuff belonging to you does he possess?0
Because its to awkward to do right then. Maybe he forgot. Is it big stuff or like a t-shirt I have 3 brothers guys don't remember a lot of stuff you wouldn't believe.0
Well we can't say for sure why he did it. But in the case of my ex and I think most cases, it's because they're angry and hurt.0
Could be all of them..0
Because he/she is hurt and consequently vindictive. This is a way to get your attention. When my ex moved he took all my pants along with his on the day he left. What he'd do with them? Not a thing. He was just trying to p*ss me off because he'd just been kicked out for making the previous ten years a complete shambles.1
maybe the things are so insignificant he threw them away or completely forgot about them and you're the one that can't let things go0
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