Befor me and my boyfriend were together, we went with some friends on vacation. Like I said we werent together, but we we're hooking up. And I knew he wanted something serious and I told him we should try how it works out BUT we didn't actually say we are boyfriend and girlfriend. Nor did we do anything like that. We just hooked up form time to time . WEll now in this vacation we were clubbing and there was a guy inviting me for a lot of drinks and I was pretty drunk. And this guy kissed me. I was that drunk that it took me a little to push him away. And I felt terrible because I actually liked my (now-)bf. fe wweeks late we got officially together but I never told him about this incident. I'm actually not like that when I'm drunk and have a boyfriend. But since it wasn't clear what we were there wasn't that bell that rang in my head and alarmed me to stop.
soo what should I do?
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ill be honest with you...if he's your boyfriend now then you pretty much knew from an earlier point, before your vacation, that you too had something that could develop into more, you technically didn't cheat...but realistically, you did..
NOW ...i don't know how some people do it, but with me, I don't need to sit a girl down and sign contracts for us both to know that we probably shouldn't do things with other people, I think you know what you did wasn't right, hence why you've posted it as a question.
THE GOOD NEWS IS: Your a good person, at least you feel guilty about the mistake, even though I believe saying your 'drunk' is the worst excuse known to man. At least you realize to some level that your actions weren't right, and that's better than most...
As to what you should do...you probably already know that your going to take this secret to the grave with you loool
In all honestly if I was your man, I'd REALLY REALLY REALLY like to know this bit of information about our relationship so I know how best to plot my revenge...buuut I'm not your man and I haven't a clue what type of guy he is...but to be safe, don't tell him, but if you see him as husband material, tell him and see if he'll still stand beside you...you'll feel burden-less as opposed to a snake. lol
Best of Luck! x1