Hypothetically speaking, if she was too clingy in their first relationship, and as a result it only lasted a short time because he dumped her (and he said "it wouldn't work out") but then about a year goes by and he sees that she has her own life now and her own s#!* going on, could the attraction still be there?
- I would take her back if I was still attracted to her and if she was still interested. If she was less clingy, totally!Vote A
- I don't want to go through it again--the relationship ended for a reason!Vote B
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I would take her back if I truly love her...For instance I wouldn't take my ex, after she told me that I was too intense and that I wasn't funny enough for her and etc etc, even though now she is always begging me to hang out with her.
People are stupid man, I am telling you, I have a question for you people: If you truly loved somebody why wouldn't you forgive them if they are truly sorry? Often times, you only get one chance if your lifetime, and if you don't take that chance, it would never happen again.
Take it for me: I love this girl with all of my heart, it is a complicated situation but she played with me which really hurt me, but she realized how bad was her mistake, she tried to talk to me about it and I decided to blew her off the water, just because of my dumb ego. There isn't a day that doesn't go by, that I don't regret what I did...She seems to be a different person and to date, many years later, I haven't found somebody who has made me feel the way she did.