So lets say you've met a girl in class and you want to try to get to know her. Maybe you just want a good friend or you are interested in a relationship, etc... My friends told me that I can't just say, "hey I'm heading over to Starbucks later, want to join me". They say that girls show signs to guys that lets them know if they even want to hang out , text, call, etc and that I can't just be straightforward. Doing so will make them think I am desperate. How true is this and if so, what are these signals?
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Jeez you don't have to make it so complicated haha. Don't feel like you have to have signals from her that let you know it's okay to try to start even a regular friendship. I say be direct and just ask her to hang out, or join you at Starbucks or whatever. I met my boyfriend in a class and he texted me one day saying that he wanted to hang out with me and asked if I would. Simple, straightforward, I said sure.0