My fiance and I had a bad breakup a few days ago. He said it was over due to my distrust. I haven't contacted him and he hasn't contacted me. Would it be a bad idea to text or email him on his birthday in a few weeks?
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Contacting him on any day that isn't special can show you care. Contacting him on a "special" day could send the wrong signal that everything is normal which would contradict what he believes to be true. Generally guys need time alone to process feelings, if he hasn't contacted you then he either has decided that it's over and wants nothing more to do with you, or he isn't done thinking things over. Either way I feel it's not a good idea to contact him on that specific day. The day after might be OK. Something along the lines of you didn't forget but you didn't want to intrude on his day.0