So, my ex girlfriend of a year broke up with me 6 weeks ago. She said some things I did got on her nerves and couldn't see her self spending the rest of her life with me. She has since been on a couple dating sites and hung out with guys and found issues with them ( I know this because she recently posted a question on a site similar to this one). Her posting basically said that the she broke up with me cause I did things that got on her nerves, the other guys she has hung out with she finds problems with as well. She hurts deep in the pit of her stomach when she thinks about me and how much she misses me. she asks if she misses ME or our committed relationship and if she will find it with someone lese but just needs time. She KNOWS I would come across this as I have posted on this site as well. She has also recently "liked" a video I posted on my FB account and we are not FB friends anymore. She also texted me Sunday night
"watching the (baseball team) reminds me of you. Actually I thought about you a lot yesterday (my roomates wedding day which she would of attended). I hope things are OK with you"
So is she reaching out, is she realizing that there is no perfect person out there, just perfect for her. Is she messing with me. I have also hung out with girls, but she is still in my thoughts and heart. Is this a lost cause or do I continue to give her time to come to the realization and hope it isn't too late.
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She definitely misses you and, like everyone else has said, she probably is noticing that no one is perfect. Even though you are still getting over the break up, if she is still in your thoughts and heart then you obviously miss her too and shouldn't be unhappy because things are over. I think that you should keep making an effort and talking to her just to see how she's doing. She fell for you once, there's nothing preventing her from doing it again. If you make an effort and show you care, I'm sure she will come back.
Being a girl, in my personal opinion, I like it when guys start the conversation and find out how I am because it shows that they care about me. It shows that they are taking time to see how I'm doing. If you do this for her, she will feel special and maybe see over time that you may not be perfect, but you are perfect for her. Don't give up:)0