I went out the other night and met a guy and his friend. The guy was really cute, he was flirty and I could tell he was into me. I asked his friend if he had a girlfriend, and he didn't give me a straight answer, so I kept pursuing him anyways. We ended up making out and exchanging numbers.
I texted him the next day and we texted for hours about nothing too sexual, but we were texting for about 5 hours. At no point did he mention whether or not he had a gf.
So now, I don't know how to approach this. Do I text him next> Do I keep pursuing him a bit or do I lay back and see what he does?I feel like this situation isn't quite the normal "does he like me?" situation, as there could very well be another person involved.
Ive decided that if there is in fact a girlfriend involved, that I will still go forward with what I am doing. I do not want a lecture about this, and you cannot change my mind. I did nothing to seduce him, and I cannot make someone cheat who doesn't already want to cheat and if It were not with me, it would be with someone else.
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I agree with you. If a person wants to cheat they will cheat whether they are being "seduced" or not. It is up to him to keep that commitment to his girlfriend, not you.
Since he did not give you a straight answer, yes he does have a girlfriend or perhaps his situation is a bit more complex-ed than he wanted to tell you. Do you want to pursue things relationship wise? or as a friends with benefits? If you want to purse him has a boyfriend then I suggest you do not, because within a few months or so, he will allow "another woman" to come into his life and you will be the person looking foolish (because you already knew the type of man he was.) If you wan to pursue him as a friends with benefits, then why not? Just make sure you know his situation before jumping into things (ask him directly and say, so you never made things clear to me do you have a girlfriend or not?) and ask him what is he looking for in you?1
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