Now here is where this leads: Saturday we were supposed to see each other, we had been talking about it for the whole week before that. I had tried to confirm Friday, retried Saturday, got no answer and no call return. She texted me later saying that she had planned something else since we hadn't confirmed... I was frustrated, considering that Saturday is the only day we can see each other every week because of work and university. So I decided to plan something with my p*rnstar friend, go have some fun. Me, her and 2 girls went to this private house, open bar party that she (the p*rnstar) was animating. Had never been there before and didn't plan to cheat on my girlfriend or anything.. The threat came, in fact, from one of the girls that was with us..
After a lot of drinks (was open bar after all LOL), she got very flirtatious, and I didn't push farther than some dancing. Then we left the place and went to a friends house and drank some more... And all the way along we were both quite excited but I was not accepting the advances... Until I finally failed, and we kissed, multiple times. I refused that we go any farther, which kinda made her unhappy, but she understood.. Then I came back home and was like wtf..
So now I ask YOU, wtf do you think I should do? Haha
A. Break up with her and tell her
B. Break up with her and don't tell her, useless to hurt her
C. Don't break up but tell her, see if she breaks up
D. Don't break up and don't tell her, what happens in vegas stays in vegas. As long as you know it won't happen again.
Thanks in advance
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First things first, you need to tell your girlfriend what happened, she deserves to know the truth. Whether you want out, or want to try and work things out is up to you. To be perfectly honest it seems like you are trying to rationalize why you were unfaithful, and I can say from personal experience that that really sucks. There is nothing worse than finding out that your boyfriend cheated on you and on top of all that wants you to take some of the blame. The fact that you put yourself in a situation where you would be so tempted to cheat is a red flag for me.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE