We keep breaking up and making up, but our last fight, he told me he didn't want to make up last time, and I assumed he wanted to talk out the problems, so I left. I apologized (I felt guilty, but didn't wanna pressure him to get back together if he didn't want to so I kept it friendly) and he said he would call when he could and when I asked what for? he said well I remembered you wanted to talk after our last discussion. I know we have our problems that we need to work on, but is it a good thing that we can't seem to get over each other and keep coming back?
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The reason your constantly breaking up is because this relationship will never work. You can't fix something where the broken pieces are missing and the reason your getting back together every time is because of the small reason you broke up in the first place for, you both think that the other takes you for granted and when one of you does something to upset the other, you both get on a frenzy and split up. This is a vicious circle you both will repeat until one of you matures in the relationship and says "enough is enough" I can see that your almost there because your not chasing him for reconciliation, but he almost always wants to get in touch to talk things over, but there's no point in a simple sorry when its not really ment and both of you will again argue about the same problem probably 3 weeks down the line again, so you should call it a day, mature a little more, have a few friends that you get emotionaly involved with, and then maybe try again after a year maybe, but right now, this relationship is stuck on doom if you both keep splitting up and getting back together, give each other that little space to miss each other and see where your at after, good luck,x0