Should you talk to someone who rebounded you?
Back in high school I was a friends with a girl (also goes to my college) who dated this other guy for about a year. He broke up with her and she was pretty sad about it. A few weeks after this had happened I just asked her one day how it was going (not thinking about the breakup) and she told me everything. Trying to be a good friend I talked to her about it, but after awhile we started talking to each other all the time. After getting to know each other we started liking each other a lot more and we started hanging out a lot more alone. Although we weren't officially dating we admitted we liked each other quite a bit and for a 1 1/2 months we were like this, even went to 2 school dances together. But after her ex broke up his new girlfriend he decided to take her back and she went back to him. I was sad about it as I had thought that we were more than just good friends, so I didn't talk with her from that day on. They broke up again after another year of dating. Its been a few weeks since they broke up. But I am wondering would it be bad to talk to her as a friend, add her on Facebook, etc.? (she emailed me in the last year about school stuff, but I've ignored her since college started).
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Nope. It'd just bring back bad memories. It's bad enough for me that I see one of the girls who rebounded with me at concerts I go to.0
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