We started going to the gym together after I met him through a friend at the gym. We got to know each other. One day we actually hung out and did a couple errands together. He really wanted to make out with me. That didn't happened until later that night after going to the gym with him. We held hands. I hadn't felt the way I felt for almost a year.
There was one day at the gym I saw him, I felt like something was wrong. I asked him if his girlfriend was pregnant? He said no.
A couple weeks later I found out he was getting married. I was shocked! I couldn't believe it.
We still go to the gym together. He flirts with me. He told me if his girlfriend didn't get pregnant we would of still been hanging out.
He always looks straight into my eyes.
I wish he didn't think he had to marry her...They've only known each other about a year...
The first time I met him. My friend asked if he thought he was going to marry his girlfriend. He said no!
Another time I asked him about it. He didn't want to be the father with his child with no mother at church.(She doesn't believe) I go to church.
Maybe this just wasn't meant to be or a case when he realizes this after he gets married it doesn't work out.
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It doesn't matter if he'd be happier with you- he's got a kid now. He's not marrying her to be happy, he's marrying her because he knocked her up and now he's stepping up, taking responsibility and being a man. So man guys don't do that, and don't be the bitch that steals a father away and leaves a young mother to raise the kid on her own, knowing that it's father had been cheating on her and now, when he got her pregnant decides to bail once and for all. Don't be that guy.
You need to back off. He's not yours, nothing you think matters, nothing. It's bad enough you got him to cheat on his girlfriend with you, but the fact that you want him even though he now has a kid? You're so unbelievably selfish and inconsiderate and immature I can barely type this in a reasonable tone. You're stuck in the "I want it. I want it. Give it to me! It's mine. That's not fair. I want it!" mindset that you had when you were seven.
Stop talking to him, stop flirting with him. Just stop. You have nothing but heartbreak and home breaking to add to this situation and you've done enough already. Leave him alone.0
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