Things were going great between me and this girl I really like. We would go to movies, hang out in the park and text for hours at night?
She said she didn't want a relationship and I understood because she just got out of a bad one. All of a sudden she pretty much cut off all contact. She said I was trying to change her mind, but I wasn't. I told her from the beginning that I would go as fast or slow as she wanted. Maybe she was just starting to like me more than she wanted to and had to push me away so it wouldn't go any further.
I want to text her and talk to her everyday but I don't because I want to show her that I am not trying to push her into anything.
But how do I quit thinking about her 24/7?
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Good question. First, I think you have made the right choice in not contacting her. It's usually best to give her room and let her contact you when she's ready.
As for how to quit thinking about her... this is a tough thing when you like someone. The best thing I've tried to do is keep myself occupied. Whether it be pursuing a hobby, watching movies, working out, etc.
Good luck man, been there!0