my boyfriend and I broke up last week (it was my doing) because were just not compatible and I don't have any chemistry with him. he got really angry, but then apologized and then he said he wanted to be friends which turned into us "trying things out" again...aka essentially being back in a relationship I don't want to be in. I agreed to it because I felt bad and I do know him better than anyone else in the world, including his family (because of secrets he's told me).
but fact is I just want to be single, and I don't know how to get out of this situation. I know its my fault for getting unofficially back together but I just really need some help getting out, but for real this time.
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You need to end this ASAP; just tell him straight up that you two are finished, and that it needs to be a clean break -- no "let's be friends" nonsense. Yes, his feelings will be hurt, but he's a big boy; he'll get over it. It's a waste of his time -- and yours -- if you stay with him despite a total lack of interest in him.0