Honestly, I've cried some today, thinking, here is a guy that finally came to his senses that after 3 years, we should be together.
As you can imagine, I felt torn apart. Any suggestions? Thanks
oy, id try and give you advice but I don't have enough life experience.
Hm... if he doesn't want to get married then why did he call you his fiancee? That doesn't make much sense... And if you didn't think you would want to get married again why would you propose? It sounds like you're both a little conflicted with your emotions and thoughts on marriage. I think that maybe you tried to rush things along and that might've made him a little nervous. I understand you two have known each other for 3 years, but knowing someone online and seeing them in person and being in a relationship with them are two different ball games. I think you two should just drop the subject of marriage for awhile and see how things go first. I knew and liked my ex for about 3 years before we got together and it was the worst relationship I've ever been in. How he was in person (over time) was nothing like he was online. See how things go after he moves to your town. After a year or so if things are still going well, then start worrying about marriage. What's the rush?
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