Me and my girlfriend broke up 9 months ago( were together for 2 years), both decided that we were no longer love with each other, no fights, no drama.
She asked me for some time to cope with it all before seeing each other again as friends... That was 4 months ago.
I would love to remain good friends since we have been through a LOT together, we both helped each other trough some horrible times...
So here 's the dilemma, I sent her a letter to ask her if she would consider us being friends again since I had not heard from her for such a long time. but I never got an answer.
You must understand, I'm someone who likes closure, if she no longer wishes to have contact with me, why doesn't she just say so?
What should I do ? Just say I've tried plenty and forget about the whole thing, keep trying,... ?
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if she got the letter and has decided not to contact you from this, maybe she is having a hard time with the thought of 'just being friends'. Maybe she didn't want to break up and just went along with what you said so she didn't look like a fool?
Maybe she loved you so much that it would now be hard for her to be friends and discuss things like friends do i.e a new girlfriend you might want to see etc. It is VERY difficult for girls to remain friends with guys who they have shared such intimacy with. I think that you either want her back or don't contact her at all.0