my ex has a new girlfriend - they've been together about a month and a half. but he continues to text me constantly asking to see me so we can 'talk' about us...I've told him I'm not even going to consider it while he's with someone else. I said either end it, or stop contacting me and move on.
was this too harsh?
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You're being very smart. Generally guys will do that just to see what they can get away with, usually the very immature guys. It's good to show him that you're serious and you're not interested unless he's serious too. I wish I had done the same thing as you when I was in that situation. Always put yourself first.0