I found text messages on my husbands phone to another woman. They were very flirty and full of compliments to her eg telling her she is stunning, and fit etc etc. He had been texting her for 2 months everyday, from early morning until very late at night, but always in secret. I later discovered he had invited this girl on a night out and met up with her and her mates, while he was out on a works do. He claims that nothing physical ever happened and nor did he want it to, yet admits that he did find her physically attractive and was flattered by the attention from her. He says it was all silly messages that went too far and he never wanted to be with this person.
Did he cheat? Do you think he had intention to take it further? Or was it just pathetic flirty texts?
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Honey, it's like this...either he IS interested in "something else" happening or it already has and he told you a BOLD FACED LIE when he told you otherwise. A guy doesn't flirt with someone if there's no interest in the possibility that something else might happen...UNLESS...the woman is a close personal friend of his and if THAT were the case, then you would have met her and he wouldn't be secretive about his texts...moreover if it WERE just "silly messages" he'd just tell you about it and give the both of you something to laugh about ... together.0