My boyfriend and I were watching a movie and then the movie started watching us as we dosed off lol. Then his phone started going off and I taped him and said your phone (its like 3am) so he's like don't worry about it. It stops for awhile then starts again and I'm like can you shut that thing off and he's talking in his sleep and says you do it. I picked up the phone to cut the sound down and with his phone if you get a text or email it pops up to the middle of the phone. The email said: "Join our next bareback party" I'm sure that's self explanatory but I almost fainted and YES I looked at the email..it says the address, time, thanks for your admission, etc...admission? So I looked at sent and he sent them a pic, age, height, weight and said he's ready to have fun..with guys? So I confront him calmly and he says, omg then wakes fully up..tries to explain all he did was look and lies about admission..says he was going to unsubscribe because he couldn't do it anymore. Long story short, I broke up with him..I don't judge bi's but for you to lie and hide about it makes you cowardly..there's was also loads of g*y and sh*male vids..I have not slept from this and I hope I made the right decision. I feel like almost 3 years were wasted.
I need major advice about my boyfriend, Guys & Girls please!
What Guys Said 3
i would say if there wasy gay stuff on there then yeah he's gay
but shemale videos are actually aimed at hetrosexual males...basically a shemale is a "girl" but has that extra thing...
anyways he lied to you, it was good to break it off because trust is important...if he was open to you about it but made it clear he loves you then it'd be different...i wouldn't have broken up with him because of the gay stuff, I mean he was dating you so obviously he was bi or bicurious...but you said you broke up with him because he lied which is really the only reason I can see for a break up at this point...
take some time apart, see if he does truly love you and if you can gain his trust back and you lvoe him as well then maybe it will work in the future0
A lot of that going around. For a lot of women, a bi guy is trendy. So naturally, there are a LOT of such guys.
In those circles, it's trendy to lie and cheat. Not that lying and cheating don't happen in heterosexual relationships, but it's not what I'd call the 'in' thing among us.
I"m sorry this happened, but it's lucky you found out without getting an STD, right?0
I guess you had to do what you had to do, and you did the right thing. Don't worry, you will find someone better :)1
What Girls Said 3
You have made the right decision. He has to figure things out for himself and no reason you should be drug through something that ultimately is not going to be in your benefit.1
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